A new spark
It’s everybody’s first thought when things need a little spicing up in the bedroom- and goodness knows eventually we are all going to need that! But when you are looking into playing around a little with sexy knickers how do you make sure that it brings added pleasure to your love life and not extra hassle?

If you take your time to think about both of your likes and dislikes, and the fantasy atmosphere you want to create, you can really bring a fresh fizz and sparkle to your relationship with a new wardrobe of sexy underwear.

The first thing is to find out what you both think is sexy. It sounds obvious, but if one of you is thinking crotchless and leopard print, and the other something white and lacy straight out of a Victorian bodice ripper fantasy then neither of you are going to be happy. It can be a little embarrassing to talk about these things, and sometimes you don’t even know what you like till you see it, so why not flick through a catalogue together – either online or a paper one, perhaps even in bed.

One aspect of sexy lingerie that’s too often ignored is comfort. There’s a limit to how sexy you’re going to feel when you are in pain, or can’t breathe properly. Make sure you buy the right size for you, and maybe if you’re unsure buy a slightly larger size rather than one that’s too tight. Look for a style that feels nice as well as looking good- many find babydoll sets both erotic and very easy to wear. And don’t forget there are two of you! What’s sauce for the goose can be equally saucy for the gander, and there are many sensual underwear choices for men these days.